Your Intimacy Toys

Actually, I never discussed this problem with anyone, thus I do not know whether it concerns many women. The fact is that my boyfriend hates my sex toys. I realized it when I suggested him playing with a sex toy for the first time. He got angry, stopped kissing me and asked : What do you need this vibrator for? Don't you love my penis? Is it too short?

I was shocked. I do love sex toys, actually I have an entire collection of them. There is a big pink box in my room where I store my sex toy collection, there are plenty of nice devices: dildos of various kinds and many cute vibrators (simple penis-shaped vibes, red rabbit vibrator and many mini vibes made in the form of lovely ducks, worms, lipsticks and other funny things). All my previous boyfriends loved playing with my sex toys, and especially they loved me playing with a vibe or a dildo. None of them thought I don't get enough pleasure without a sex toy.

I don't know what I should do now. I don't know how I should persuade him that I do love his penis, I do want it. It gives me enormous enjoyment, it makes me orgasm for many times a night! I can't find words to tell him that sex toys only enhance my pleasure and they cannot replace my boyfriend and his penis which I love so much. If my sex toys were better than my boyfriend, I would not make love with him, I would not care for him - this does take time and efforts, masturbation is much simpler, don't you think so?

Actually, I am ready to throw my sex toys away if he wants me to, but I don't think this is the best way out. I still hope there will be no misunderstanding and no jealousy between us. I do hope so.

Spicing up Your Intimacy

As a rule we associate sex assistants with something that can be bought in some “interesting” shop. Yet such an approach disregards piles of various trifles scattered about our flats as e.g. such a precious thing as a laundry washer.

One 42 year old administrator told us: "My wife’s obsession was sex on a working laundry washer. We tried and repeated that many times. I am 186 centimeters tall, that’s why I can simply stay in front of the washer, with my wife on it embracing my hips with her legs. We make sex using “laundry” cycle and when it ends I simply push the button and everything starts again. It looks like a giant external vibrator!"

Another man told us: "Several times I used dildos when a woman didn’t mind. I found out that putting this toy into her anus immediately before intercourse considerably facilitates vaginal orgasm. Recently I’ve used the vibrator in my own anus. I especially liked the sensations in combination with oral sex. Some women even like manipulating with vibrator speed and depth of penetration while kissing my penis. I find it extremely erotic ".

And here are some other “sex toys” to be used in love games.

Old T-shirts. "Before sex I put on an old T-shirt and let my wife tear it to pieces, - reveals the secret a 52 year old accountant. – This always excites me, from the moment when I lost my virginity. Tearing each other’s clothes is cool!"

Food. "Bringing food into bedroom isn’t only erotic but also creates free and playful environment, - says one of our respondents. – But cook something unusual: bananas – too trite, try orange segments or melon lumps".

Others prefer chocolate ice-cream, honey, jelly, whipped cream, olive, strawberries, cherries etc. One young man said: “I have noticed that barbecue sauce adds some spice to our love games". Another respondent laconically notices: "Halvah!"

Eye bands. According to the words of one woman they require strong mutual trust but are highly exciting.

Down and feathers. Anything arousing your skin is wonderful – small silk scraps, hen feathers, astrakhan, leather or, as one respondent offers: "clean bed-sheets and pillows right from dryer – very hot".

Chocolate body painting. I won’t tell you what can be made with somebody’s body with the help of a tin of chocolate cream: the possibilities are innumerable. My friend claims that it reminds sex in a healing mud-bath.